Jesus wasn’t a homophobe so why are you?


Last November, Paul Davies, decided to get baptised as a public declaration of his commitment to God. For months before that, Paul wrestled with the desire to become a Christian and part of Church, against his strong beliefs that homosexuality is not a choice, but is natural. He wrote the following article for a special issue of ‘Quench’ on LGBT+ about the way the in which some Churches have treated LGBT+.

Christianity has for a long time been one of the most prominent anti-gay institutions. As a Christian, I find this deeply upsetting. Homophobia goes against my faith which teaches me that God loves everyone. In fact, if you’re going to take one single message from the Bible, it should be a message of love. Jesus didn’t condemn anyone, except religious leaders, so the Church has no place doing it either. Despite my feeling on this, I’m well aware that I’m in the minority. The majority of Christians still condemn homosexuality.

I’m thankful to admit that this is starting to change. I was inspired to write this article when I heard about a group of Christians who attended a gay pride march in Chicago. I know what you’re thinking. A group of not just Christians, but American Christians, at a gay pride march sounds like a recipe for disaster. I’m glad to say that it wasn’t. The group were holding up banners apologising for the way the church had treated homosexuals. Their apology sparked a fantastic response from the marchers. There were tears, waving and even one dancer left the march to hug the Christians.

For me, the image is heart warming. There’s a lot of media attention for Christians who condemn homosexuality. Such as the crazy Westbro Baptist Church who claim that ‘God hates Fags’. (By the way, don’t be too offended by the Westbro nut jobs, apparently god also hates Sweden as well, because of the ‘Satanic IKEA’.)

It’s rare to see such a powerful display of acceptance from Christians. This is partly because anti-gay Christians are a lot more vocal, and partly because the media would rather report on condemnation than acceptance. In the summer some of the people in my church went to a gay bar because they had karaoke. The staff were shocked that Christians would want to go there but we hadn’t given it a second thought. The crazies are much few and far between but we’re all quite likely to have heard about their shameful campaigns.

The truth is that there are many Christians, particularly the young future leaders of the church, who find the idea of condemning homosexuals repulsive and morally wrong. Many see that the homosexuality of the Bible and of today is completely different.  In the Bible when homosexuality is mentioned it is in the context of rape or extra marital affairs. This is a historical difference in culture and language which has tainted Christianity over the years. The word homosexuality didn’t exist when the Bible was written, so the relations referred to are not the same as we would understand homosexuality now. Christians need to accept and understand this, like they have over issues such as slavery.

The future’s bright for acceptance within the church. We’re starting to see the cobwebs being brushed off. The more modern, independent Churches are already changing the religious Christianity, not the message, but the man-crafted ideology that has corrupted the real message of Christ. The old institutions are going to either change, or die along with their congregation.

There is so much more to say on this issue, this really is just a brief article about this topic, especially with the recent prevalence of the gay marriage debate. Please feel free to express your views on this post in the comments box below but do so with respect.

Easter for athiests

Did you have a nice Easter? I went home to see my family so I didn’t get to write many blog posts last week. The weather has been far too lovely here in Wales to be sat inside typing away at the computer. Hope you had a nice weekend and managed to complete lent. Despite many-a-messy-hair day I stuck through the 40 days and have barely used my GHDs since. I hope my hairdresser will be pleased with the condition of my hair next week. Like Lent, Easter has something to offer everyone outside of chocolate eggs and hot-cross buns.

As my family are Christians, we went to Church a few times over the weekend and Easter is a big deal for us. Thinking over the message of Easter, I realized that, like Lent, Easter has a message for everyone, even if you’re an atheist or a member of another faith.

For Christians, the cross symbolizes the love God has for humanity (He sent His Son to pay the price for our sins), forgiveness and transformation. I think most of us would that there are many parts of our character which leave a lot to be desired. Lent encourages us to develop self-control which prepares us to transform ourselves at Easter. Most people make resolutions at the beginning of the year, why not start a tradition of making resolutions at Easter? My plan is to make resolutions which change my character, less superficial than new year’s though. Instead of resolving to loose weight or read more, make resolutions to be more generous or less judgmental.

Why don’t you join me? Is there something you’d like to change?